Monday, 13 February 2017

Dating... The "proper" way to meet someone!

I just came across a video on YouTube about meeting someone the old fashioned way, a guy decided he was going to go out in London, walk up to women and just ask them out. The vast majority said no instantly and the others really quizzed him on why he was doing it, and it just got me thinking about dating.

For as long as I can remember I've had so many people tell me not to meet a guy online or in a club as their intentions will never be good. But if someone were to come up to me in the street I would either assume they were trying to sign me up to one of those "free" haircut and photoshoot sessions or I'd immediately say "I have a boyfriend" even if I don't.

Lets be honest if any of our friends knew an amazing single guy we would've already bugged them about setting us up, but they don't, which is why we rely on dating apps or go out to bars to meet someone.

The thing I've never really understood is why is it so bad to meet someone that way? The same guy telling his friends he'll never marry a woman he met in a club will have a sister who goes clubbing all the time, does that mean she is not worthy of marriage either?!

If someone is going to mess you about they're going to do it no matter where or how you meet them. I say give someone the benefit of the doubt, waiting for prince charming to walk into the Ritz whilst your having afternoon tea with your girlfriends is a nice idea but....you know where I'm going with this.

Don't let people make you feel bad for how you choose to meet someone, its better than being home alone scrolling through all the Instagram posts of happy couples wishing it was you.

 


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